Courtesy of The Black Socialite  This Vivienne Westwood gown hasa waistline defining corset bustier asymmetrically draped with contrasting striped silk satin taffeta and worn atop a floor sweeping trumpet bottom evening skirt.
 Italian designer Oppio glams-up a pair of patch pocket jeans and matching denim jacket with an intricate embroidery of golden rickrack and beaded appliqués that accent a stonewashed green tint and a pair of gold wedge heel sandals from Baby Phat.  This Emanuel Ungaro peplum cut zipper front jacket of Crocodile and Mongolian lamb exotically accessorizes a classic pair of pinstripe pants worn with a ruched silk-jersey bustier. Last night, TV One aired a wonderful documentary on The Ebony Fashion Fair. The annual celebration of style and fashion is celebrating its 50th Year in 2008. The re-broadcast is scheduled to air again this Friday (check your local listings).
The documentary really gives a rich historical perspective of how groundbreaking this type of event was/is for the Black community. The documentary's contemporary spin not only dealt in the challenges Mrs. Eunice Johnson (Producer and Director of the Ebony Fashion Fair) faced with staging a production of this magnitude, but also addresses how America has come full circle in terms of excluding Black models from the runway.
I was deeply moved and impressed with how she leveraged her personal, professional, and social networks in order to make the event successful. She also used her own money to purchase the haute couture pieces that appeared in the show in the early years (yes...I was shocked by this as well).
We own her all of the credit for introducing Sistas to Chanel, Fendi, Valentino, YSL, and Gucci.
Mrs. Johnson also successfully launched Fashion Fair Cosmetics which spurred other companies to launch 'ethnic cosmetics' lines.
What was always nice about The Ebony Fashion Fair is that Johnson Publications allows the event to be showcased as a fundraising activity for many of our BSE organizations including the sororities, the fraternities, the Links, Jack & Jill, the Girlfriends, Chums, Moles, and others. The show was traditionally a time for us to gather together in our best outfits and enjoy a spectacular event.
Consider attending the show if it rolls through your town. The clothes are really smashing this year!
Or you can buy some Fashion Fair Cosmetics as a nod to the great legacy The Johnson Family has created for us in this country. They were the first to show all aspects of the Black experience in America and taught many of us that Black is truly beautiful. Cheers! Read more at The Black Socialite: Covering the Lifestyles of Black Socialites.
This website was founded by a Super Socialite insider who enjoys having fun and making the world a better place! She lives a fabulous life and encourages others to do the same. This blog includes some of her junkets and musings about Black socialite life. If you are a member of the tribe or aspire to become one, this rich, dishy recipe should delight, entertain, and educate you!
This body wrap removes toxins from the skin and gives skin a healthy glow.
 Materials:
1/2 cup powdered clay
1/4 cup powdered kelp
1/4 cup distilled water
1/4 cup sea salt
1/2 cup aloe vera gel
basic shower curtain or plastic wrap
Preparation:
Blend ingredients together in a bowl to form a smooth paste. Generously spread paste all over your body. Lay some plastic wrap or a shower curtain down in a bath tub and lay on top of it. Wrap the plastic completely around yourself. Relax to soothing music as you allow the mud to dry. You may find that the clay itches a bit as it dries. If it becomes too uncomfortable, gently pat the clay with a little water. After 30 minutes rinse the mud off with warm water. Pat dry and follow up with a hydrating moisturizer. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
By Janice Wee
 Especially if you are meeting existing clients or prospects!
Looking professional means grooming is paramount. Look immaculate. Clothes should be well pressed and fall flatteringly when you move. Nails should be well kept and makeup should not be overdone.
First impressions count. The way you look, the way you carry yourself, and the image you project makes a difference in the direction the meetings might take. You want to impress your contacts, don't you?
Showing up in a crumpled outfit, no matter how expensive it might be, will not make a good impression. So unless there will be an iron in the hotel room you will be staying, or you intend to lug along an iron to press your clothing, or the hotel offers laundry services you can count on to get you in well pressed clothes before the meetings, avoid clothes that crease easily.
For your jacket, skirt and pants, avoid 100% linen or 100% silk clothing. Although they look and feel fabulous when well pressed, they wrinkle easily. Instead, pack jackets, skirts and pants that travel well.
By the way, the most important piece of clothing you can pack into your suitcase for your business trip is a great jacket. That one jacket can smarten up anything, be it a dress, tank top and pants, or camisole and skirt.
For this all-important jacket, go for one made of wool or at least a wool blend which falls flatteringly on your figure, yet travels well. A wool or wool blend jacket will not crinkle like 100% linen or silk. Even artificial fibers like polyester and rayon travel well as they don't crinkle easily. A blend that is made of wool and synthetic fibers would travel well and may be just what you need for that business trip. Pick at least 2 jackets in neutral shades. Black, navy, brown, white and gray are business-like colors that are easy to match. You jacket should be feminine, yet work worthy.
Next, pick camisoles and tank tops in colors you love. These can be worn under your jacket, paired with skirts or pants. Get a skirt and a pair of pants to go with those 2 jackets. Then add a dress or two. Make all these wool or at least a wool blend so that they will look great when you finally get to your destination. You can also get away with lycra blend tank tops and synthetics, as these travel well too.
Still, if the weather permits, go for wool as natural fibers look and fall much better than synthetics. They look more expensive too, which makes them great for your image as a successful professional!
You can get wool clothing at http://www.buyclothing.net
Sugar scrubs are perfect for exfoliating dead skin cells and stimulating blood flow.
 Materials:
1/3 cup sugar
3 drops food coloring (optional)
1/2 teaspoon coconut oil
10 drops vanilla essential oil
Preparation:
Mix all ingredients together and press into lightly oiled mold. (The clear, plastic Crisco shortening stick tubs work well). Allow bars to dry (24-48 hours) before use.
To Use: Take sugar scrub bar and rub it on to wet skin. Give extra attention to rough areas. Be aware that placing the bar in water will cause the sugar to dissolve and the bar to turn to mush. Make smaller, one-time use bars for the shower. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
This would make a lovely and personal gift for someone special. Decorate a glass jar and add a small wooden spoon for easier application.
 Materials:
3/4 cup buttermilk
3/4 cup vanilla essential oil
1 teaspoon sweet almond oil
3 cups epsom salts
loofah
Preparation:
Combine ingredients. Stir well. Dip the loofah into your vanilla mixture. Using circular movements, rub over the skin, including the face. Give extra attention to rough areas. Continue to do this until your body is covered. Rinse off in a cool shower and pat dry. Follow up with a soothing moisturizer. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
"Letter to the Editor" Dr. Yakini,
I am in the beginning stages of trying to take care of myself: skin, hair, and body. So you can imagine my joy when I saw your website! My question is about my hair. It is soooooo thin. What do you recommend to aid in thickening it up?
I'm in the process of washing and deep conditioning once a week now so we shall see if this helps at all. Are there any special conditioners you'd recommend? What about vitamins? Hair tips! Anything would be greatly appreciated! Thanks again for creating the site and I'm looking forward to all of your updates and advice. I will be sharing your site with all of my friends!
Thanks
Dear Reader,
Thank you for the lovely email! I am always happy to share healthy hair tips from my regimen with  you and the other ladies of GHW®. Be mindful, however, that I have extremely fine-textured and soft, type 4a hair that is mildly relaxed. So I designed my regimen with minimal manipulation in mind, as this is what has allowed me to retain length while also thickening the hair shaft.
I encourage you to use these tips as a guide to help you develop a personalized regimen, based on your own hair type and needs.
Overview
As I've indicated, my hair is naturally very fine/thin and that is genetic. However, prior to 2005 it was thiner and limper than it had to be. This is before I joined the on-line hair community and learned to properly care for it. At this time my hair was seriously thin and over-processed, primarily from relaxing too frequently and also indulging in one too many Dominican blowouts. Further, the ends were split and raggedy. [Aside: I am a major advocate of Dominican salons today. However, now I only get the roots blown out after a rollerset].
In August 2005 I made the decision to start taking better care of my hair, stop relying on extensions for length, and do only what works for me, rather than following the advice of a stylist or hair magazine. It was at this time that I began to discover the factors that were keeping my hair thin and contributing to breakage.
Past Mistakes
- roughly combing my hair every day, throughout the day
- wrapped my hair every night, in the SAME direction, and securing the wrap with a BRUSH
- relaxing my hair every 6 weeks, and sometimes a few days sooner, if I felt that it "needed" it
- using a regular touch-up, when all my hair ever needed was mild
- playing in my hair with my fingers (combing through it absent-mindedly and/or twirling it around my fingers)
- failing to wear protective styles (i.e., wearing it down often, so that the ends were frequently brushing against my rough cotton coat or shirt)
- not moisturizing properly, especially not the ends. This resulted in dandruff and dry, rough ends that would break easily
- trimming too much and too often. A good trim 1-2 times per year is all you really need... that is, if you protect the ends and DUST them regularly to remove splits
- dying my hair, using permanent dye with bleach, repeatedly, several times a year (out of sheer boredom)
- using a curling iron on a daily basis
Since embarking upon my healthy hair journey in 2005 I've picked up some really valuable tips. I am pleased to note that my hair is substantially thicker and has also reached waist length! I attribute this progress to a number of reasons:
Thicker, Healthier Hair
*Note* These are tips that work for me. Various hair types require varying levels of care, so make sure you tweak your regimen and do what works for yours! Drink lots of water and eat a healthy, balanced diet! Healthy hair begins from within. Your hair, skin, AND nails will thank you!
Sometimes it isn't possible to get all the nutrients our body needs from our daily diet. Vitamins will complement your diet as well as help to stimulate your hair's growth rate. I suggest taking a multi- and hair vitamin. I recommend:
Biotin (10 mg)
One A Day For Women
B-100 Complex (optional)
Avoid DIRECT heat at all costs. That includes flat-irons, blow dryers, and curling irons.
In lieu of direct heat, roller set under a hooded dryer (indirect heat) to dry, with large magnetic rollers. Then finger tousle, rather than comb out, your hair... as the curls fall naturally, this makes for a really sexy, big, wavy look! Very "Charlie's Angels."
Pin curl your hair at night to maintain that fresh-out-of-the-salon, bouncy look. For a curly/roller set look, make the pin-curl smaller. For a looser, wrapped look, make the pin-curl looser..... OR just tuck the hair under your satin bonnet and sleep with it loose.
Shoulder Length Ladies: When hair is shoulder length it's even MORE prone to breakage because it's in contact with your clothing. The frequent rubbing against rough wool and cotton is fraying those ends!
Avoid wrapping if you can (especially fine-haired ladies). Over time, it may thin out your hair on one side. If you MUST wrap, alternate directions nightly.
Try "stretching" your relaxer. See if you can go 2-3 months instead of <6 weeks. This prevents overlap of the chemicals onto the previously relaxed hair, and avoids weakening of the hair. Eventually, your hair will be stronger. There are some women who can stretch for 4 months plus. Do only what works for YOU. I find that stretching this long isn't good for my fine hair, so at the most i'll stretch for 8-9 weeks.
Go with the mildest relaxer that you can! How do you really know that you need that super.... or that regular? If a milder relaxer can straighten your hair to your liking, then opt for this one! I recommend experimenting with a milder relaxer for one touch-up just to see how your hair likes it.
As long as the ends of your hair are exposed.... they aren't protected! During your grow out process, they should be seen only rarely. Find a style that allows you to moisturize and tuck those ends in. (Click the thumbprint to enlarge image of my protective style).   
Be creative AND frugal! Use what's in your kitchen. Add eggs or mayonnaise (protein) honey, ripe avocado, coconut milk, or coconut/olive oil (softness/silkiness/moisture), crushed garlic (prevents breakage), or cayenne pepper (stimulates scalp) to your conditioning treatments for at-home special pampering treatments!
Dust as needed. I haven’t had a "major" trim in years. And I really don’t need it! If you protect the ends well, all you'll require is an occasional dusting. You'll NEVER see growth if you allow your stylist to give you a trim with every touch-up! While fresh, bluntly cut ends are attractive, be mindful that this is an aesthetic preference and has very little do with growth!*
If the ends have already split or thinned you have no choice but to cut them. Best to get rid of the damaged ends now....then protect, protect, protect! The good news is that after one GOOD trim, all you'll need to do is dust for maintenance from that point on.
Try not to comb your hair every day! The less you comb/manipulate your hair, the less your ends risk breaking off (especially during the early phases of your hair journey, when your hair is still vulnerable/damaged). The growth that you retain will be well worth it! Combing when wet is best for me. When I do comb dry, I use a soft, medium- to wide-toothed comb. If you can find a seamless comb, even better.
Whenever possible, avoid brushing your hair. The bristles of a brush are harsh and may snap your hairs, resulting in unnecessary breakage.
Your hair is made up of about 70% Keratin Protein. Essentially, you NEED protein for healthy hair! If you don't think you are getting enough protein in your diet, then add a protein shake. In the past I've drank Perfect Zero Carb Isopure Whey Protein in mango peach. It is delish! Have fun and throw some fresh fruit and honey in it!
My hair responds well to strong protein, but that does not mean yours will too. I use Aphogee Treatment For Damaged Hair every 10 weeks, but I may sometimes use a milder protein treatment in between. I like the ORS Hair Mayonnaise as a pre-shampoo treatment. Topical protein is just as important as internal protein!
Deep condition your tresses at least once per week, for a minimum of 15-20 minutes. I exclusively use Dominican products (Aceite de oliva shampoo by Capile or Nacidit, Aceite de oliva rinse for detangling, Avocado Cream Conditioner with cholesterol for deep conditioning). However, there is a wide array of shampoos/conditioners on the market, and I urge you to do your research, experiment with a few, and find what your hair likes/responds to!
Moisturize, moisturize, moisturize!!!! This is a 2-Step Process: moisturize & seal. African-American (Type 3-4) hair is naturally drier than Type 1-2 hair.... so it's important that we keep our hair moisturized in order to retain our growth. Otherwise, it will grow.... and then break right on off.
Still not getting enough moisture? You may want to consider "baggying" your entire head at night. Here's how a frugal lady like me baggies: I use one of the cheapie plastic caps from the drug store, or saran wrap/plastic grocery bag if I've run out. Moisturize as usual, bun loosely, wrap the plastic around my head closely, and put on my silk scarf to secure. You will find that your hair is slightly damp in the morning, and that's okay. In the morning your hair is already styled (the same bun from last night) and all you need to do is use your fingers to "clean it up," i.e., lightly scrape back any hairs that are awry. The brush/comb does not need to touch your hair at all during this process.
Shedding is natural. A shed hair is long (the length of a full strand) and has a bulb at one end. Breakage is NOT natural! If you are finding short, broken hairs on your shirt and/or the floor when you comb or style this may be an indication that you are lacking protein, moisture, or BOTH!
Consider using Henna, especially if you have FINE strands like me. Henna thickened my strands substantially, and also added a lovely, subtle auburn tint. It was somewhat drying, so I did have to increase my moisturizing to counter this. At one point I was using the Henna weekly, then my schedule no longer permitted. After I stopped the results of the Henna lasted for a few months, and then I found that my hair reverted to its natural finer texture. Refer to my Henna article for more about my experiences with this.
Treat yourself sometimes! Although I am a major advocate of protective styling, I do wear my hair out on the weekends and special occasions. I find that wearing a bun, or similar updo, is an attractive, conservative look for work. However on the weekends it's fun to "let my hair down" in every sense of the word. I encourage you to do the same!
*More On Trimming
In the past I trimmed with every relaxer, per my stylist's suggestion. I had been conditioned to believe that this is what you are "supposed" to do. Thus, although my hair "looked" and certainly was healthy, I was not seeing any growth at all. Essentially, my stylist was trimming off the 1/2" of new growth I got monthly.... so I never saw a difference in length. My hair remained at one length for years.
These days I wear my hair in a protective style Monday through Thursday, which keeps the ends free of most destructive elements. For the last several years I have only gotten my ends "dusted," as needed. I dust about 3-4 times per year, and I find that is plenty. I realize now that anything more is excessive and would only derail my hair goals.
The lesson learned: While fresh, bluntly cut ends certainly do look nice, as long as you roller-set your hair, protective style a few times throughout the week, wrap/roll it at night, avoid direct heat, and keep it relatively healthy.... you should be able to avoid most split ends, and a trim with each touch-up becomes unnecessary.
Concluding Remarks
Achieving healthy hair is a process and it does take time. However, if you are reading this article and have reached the end, it means you have decided to take back control of your hair, as I took control in 2005. Congratulations to you! That is the FIRST step, and a very important one.
In this article, I have listed many practices that you can begin to incorporate into your regimen that will ultimately result in thicker, healthier hair. The last, and perhaps most valuable, piece of advice I will give is to have fun and enjoy your hair journey, every step of the way! It is amazing what you will learn, about your hair and also about yourself, as you evolve and grow in this journey.
Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
Overview
Use this mixture immediately after making it, for a relaxing bath soak that will soften and soothe your skin.
 Materials:
3 tablespoons honey
1 cup hot water
1 teaspoon vanilla essential oil
2 tablespoons milk power
Preparation:
Dissolve the honey into the hot water and stir in the powdered milk and vanilla. Spoon mixture into a bath of warm water. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
Full Length Trailer
Ladies, it's been two months since the 40-second teaser trailer of the "Sex and the City" movie came out, and now an extended version has just hit the web! This 2 1/2 minute clip is a bevy of information, and full of exciting clues of what's to come.
*Warning* If you prefer to be taken completely by surprise, I suggest you not watch this. It's quite revealing!
The film comes out May 30 and promises to be as fun, exciting, and sexy as the show over its six-season run!
CLICK HERE to browse fashions from all six seasons of "Sex and the City." CLICK HERE to return to the Home Page.
This silkening cream will leave your hands feeling smooth and smelling delicious.
 Materials:
1/4 cup beeswax
3 tablespoons vanilla essential oil
1/4 cup coconut oil
1/3 cup glycerin
Preparation:
Melt beeswax and coconut oil in a double boiler on low heat until melted. Add glycerin and remaining oil. Stir well on low heat for 5 minutes. Once blended, remove from heat and pour into large glass jar with wide mouth. Allow mixture to set to a thick consistancy before use. Dip fingers into jar and scoop out for application. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
Courtesy of Toast and Tables, by Sarah Dennis
 When I was a little girl I dreamed of the day when I would be getting married. At the time, I fantasized about a white satin dress, string of pearls, ruffles, roses and a tiara. Not anymore! While princess dresses dazzle on some women, they’re far from the only option. There are the dresses with the sleek silhouettes, the edgy runway-inspired numbers or gowns with ethereal fabrics, like chiffon, that flow as freely as a stream.
Whatever dress I choose, I'll no doubt knock’em dead! So why not commission a keepsake of the most beautiful dress you'll ever wear. Few of us are lucky enough to have Giorgio Armani personally design our wedding gown, but that doesn’t mean you can’t have a keepsake sketch like the one he gave Katie Holmes (below).
 I’ve received several emails inquiring about the fashion sketches in my header.
I’m so proud to spotlight one my very best friends on Toast and Table’s today. Brooke Hagel, a graduate of Fashion Institute of Technology in New York City, is one of the most talented fashion illustrators around!
 Submit pictures of yourself in your dress to her and she will create a framed memento in your image.   Brooke knows fashion! She has interned on “Sex and The City” so she lives and breathes details, details, details… she will replicate every detail of your gown – down to the bows, pleats, crystals and lacy embellishments. If you’re interested please contact her at fabulousdoodles@gmail.com   What’s your personal every day style and how do you translate that style into a wedding look you’ll love? This week I spotlighted three registry profiles: romantic, modern and natural. I’m more of a natural girl myself. Your wedding is your day. Make sure it belongs to the “real” you!
Toast and Tables says, “Cheers to the well-dressed table”!
It is a blog dedicated to celebrating what’s on the table – since you can’t redecorate every day, setting the table is a great way to play with what you have and to experiment with different combinations. From porcelain to hand-thrown pottery, stemware to sterling flatware, your grandmother’s china combined with modern accessories, Toast and Tables inspires readers to create a table that reflects who they are.
It is a blog for anyone who loves tableware. A place where you'll be inspired to host black-tie dinners, tea parties, barefoot picnics and everything in between. A guide that celebrates the many facets of personal creativity and encourages you to use it when setting the table for your family and friends. You're invited to discuss your favorite tableware, pass along great gift ideas, share the thrill of the hunt and the joy of the buy. Pull up a chair. Join the conversation. Bask in the delight of surrounding yourself with the things you love.
Sarah Dennis
"Cheers to a well-dressed table"!
This is a very special gift that is personal, quick to make, and inexpensive.
 Materials:
1.7 pints of inexpensive, clear bubble bath
1/2 cup dried lavender
10-15 drops of lavender essential oil
blue food coloring
Preparation:
Pour out your store bought bubble bath and place it into a large glass jug or bottle. Add the essential oils and food coloring to your bubble bath base. Add dried lavender to the bubble bath mixture. Cover and shake gently to blend all ingredients.
For a lovely, decorative effect add a dried or plastic lavender sprig (branch) to the bottle. Secure with a piece of twine. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
The sugar gently exfoliates, the honey moisturizes and soothes, while red wine blends in for a rich, bold aroma.
 Materials:
5 tablespoons raw sugar
5 tablespoons brown sugar
4 teaspoons honey
2 tablespoons red wine
Preparation:
Mix ingredients together to form a sticky paste. Using fingertips, gently massage scrub into your face in circular motions and leave in place 10 minutes. Rinse with cool water. Use a moisturizer thereafter. Refrigerate to store. Keeps indefinitely. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
The antioxidants and nutrients in this mask will nourish, soften, and rejuvenate mature skin.
 Materials:
2 tablespoons olive oil
1 tablespoon lime juice
1 teaspoon honey
Preparation:
Blend ingredients well. Leave mask on for 25 minutes. Rinse well with cool water. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
The cream is enriched with nourishing properties that will leave your skin soft and glowing.
 Materials:
1 pint of cream
2 tablespoons lemon juice
1 egg yolk
Preparation:
Whip together cream and egg yolk. Gently fold lemon juice into mixture. Apply cream to a damp, clean body and allow it to absorb into your body for 30 minutes. Shower in cool water. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
For softer, shinier hair use this nourishing pre-shampoo treatment.
 Materials:
1/2 cup coconut oil
hot towel
Preparation:
Warm the oil and apply it liberally to your hair. Wrap hair in hot, damp towel for 30 minutes. Shampoo and condition as usual. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
Sprinkle into a warm bath for a luxurious soak.
 Materials:
1/2 cup baking soda
1/4 cup epsom salts
1/2 teaspoon rose fragrant oil
Preparation:
Using a blender combine the ingredients until they have formed a fine powder. Store in a decorated glass jar (with small wooden spoon) or salt shaker. Make sure the bath dust remains dry or it will clog up and you won't be able to sprinkle it into your bath. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
This 100% edible silkening body cream makes a lovely and personal gift for the romantic interest in your life.
 Materials:
2 oz shea butter
2 teaspoons jojoba oil
1 oz coconut oil
1/4 tsp strawberry flavoring
A few drops of red food coloring
Preparation:
Mix all the ingredients together. Pour cream into small glass jar. Allow butter to set before use. Apply liberally to clean, damp skin.
For a lovely, elegant effect decorate your jar with small silk flowers. Use just a bit of twine to secure your floral arrangement. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
The sugar exfoliates and lifts away dead skin while the lemon cleanses and replenishes.
Materials:
2 tablespoons lemon juice
1/4 cup sugar
olive oil
Preparation:
Combine lemon juice and sugar. Stir well. Start the exfoliation by putting some olive oil on the loofah. Dip the loofah into your lemon mixture. Using circular movements, rub over your elbows. Rinse off with cool water and pat dry. Follow up with a soothing moisturizer.
Repeat this procedure 3-5 times a week until elbows are smooth and lightened. This treatment may be used on the knees as well. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
This natural treatment will clarify your hair and also give it a lovely shine.
 Materials:
2 cups of water
2 tablespoons apple cider
2 tablespoons basic shampoo
1 red apple, peeled and de-cored
Preparation:
Place all ingredients into blender and process. Pour mixture into a recycled shampoo bottle and apply liberally to clean, damp hair. Wrap hair in hot, damp towel for 20 minutes. Rinse well. Deep condition as usual. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
This short video gives us an inside look at the distortion of beauty in today's culture. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
If you have visited spas and resorts in exotic locales such as the Pacific Rim, Bali, Hawaii, and Tahiti, you've probably seen a facialist select and mash fresh fruit in front of you for a fresh-on-the spot enzyme mask. It's easy to recreate this mask at home. This Balinese mask will leave your face fresh and glowing.
Materials:
2/3 cup fresh papaya, mashed
15 oz. can pure pumpkin
1 egg, beaten
Preparation:
1. Prepare the mask. Cut the papaya in half and scoop out the seeds. Scoop out the papaya fruit and mash it well to eliminate lumps in the mask. Beat the egg until it is frothy. Combine that with the papaya. Add the pumpkin to the egg/papaya mixture and whip together. You  can also mix the ingredients in the blender or a food processor for an extra smooth mask.
2. Prepare your face. Wash with your daily cleanser and remove all residual makeup on your skin. Rinse with warm water. It's very important to have clean skin to ensure you get maximum benefits from the facial.
3. Apply the Mask. Cover your entire face, being careful to avoid the immediate eye area. If you have sensitive skin, test the mixture on your hand before spreading it on your face. You'll feel some tingling as the enzymes in the pumpkin go to work immediately, gently exfoliating your top layer of skin. It works like a scrub without being abrasive to your skin. Leave the mask on for 15 minutes.
4. Rinse off mask. After you've relaxed for 15 minutes it's time to rinse. The mask is fairly thick--head for the kitchen sink. Rinse mask off with cool water.
5. Apply toner & moisturizer.
Homemade spa treatment courtesy of SpaIndex.com: Guide to Day Spas and Stay Spas.
This exfoliation removes dead skin cells, gently firms, and leaves your skin smooth and silky.
 Materials:
1/4 cup fine coffee grounds
1/4 cup sea salt
3 tablespoons milk
loofah sponge
olive oil
Preparation:
Combine coffee grounds, salt, and milk. Stir well. Start the exfoliation by putting some olive oil on the loofah. Dip the loofah into your coffee mixture. Using circular movements, rub over the skin, including the face. Give extra attention to rough areas. Continue to do this until your body is covered. Rinse off in a cool shower and pat dry. Follow up with a soothing moisturizer. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
This tropical exfoliation removes dead skin cells, gently firms, and leaves your skin smooth and silky.
 Materials:
1 mango chopped
1/4 cup instant oats
1 cup raw sugar
1 tablespoon sweet almond oil
4 drops orange essential oil
1 tablespoon pineapple juice
loofah sponge
Preparation:
Place all ingredients (except essential oils) into a blender and blend into a thick paste. Remove and fold in essential oils. Dip the loofah into your mango mixture. Using circular movements, rub over the skin, including the face. Give extra attention to rough areas. Continue to do this until your body is covered. Rinse off in a cool shower and pat dry. Follow up with a soothing moisturizer. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
This rejuvenating mask nourishes, tightens pores, and helps slough off dead skin cells to reveal fresher skin.
 Materials:
1/2 cup coarsely chopped peeled cucumber
1/2 cup coarsely chopped peeled avocado
1 egg white
2 teaspoons powdered milk
Preparation:
Place all ingredients into blender and blend until smooth. Refrigerate for 30 minutes, then apply to face and neck. Leave the mask in place for 30 minutes, then rinse with warm water. Splash cool water on after that. Gently pat dry. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
This strawberry moisturizing body stick is almost good enough to eat.
 Materials:
4 oz sweet almond oil
4 oz beeswax
4 oz cocoa butter
2 teaspoons strawberry fragrance oil
Preparation:
Melt the beeswax and cocoa butter in a double boiler on low heat until melted. Remove from heat and, once mixture has cooled slightly, add oils. Pour into candy bar molds or other narrow container suitable for a stick-like bar. (The clear, plastic Crisco shortening stick tubs work well). Allow bars to set before use. To use: Rub bar over your entire body to moisturize. Bar will melt into your skin from the heat of your body. Store remaining bars in the refrigerator. Bars keep indefinitely. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
By Jane Ridley
Published Thursday, February 7th 2008
There’s nothing more infuriating than showing up for a date, only for him to wrinkle his nose and dis your outfit - but men and women tend to have very different ideas about what looks good and what doesn’t.
We asked style expert Sarah Perpich, a personal shopper at Henri Bendel in Manhattan, to pick three Valentine’s looks for three different New York City women - clothes that showcase the hottest trends for spring and each woman’s personality.
Then we asked each woman’s other half to give an honest opinion.
Mona Thabet, 23, a newspaper circulation representative, from Bensonhurst, Brooklyn, has been dating Stennie Hall, 32, a retail services manager, of nearby Sheepshead, since they met at work five years ago. Mona says: “I like wearing colorful, risque outfits as long as they’re comfortable, but Stennie doesn’t like me going out with my girlfriends in anything revealing. It’s fine if I’m with him, however. Otherwise, he would probably tape a jacket around me! My favorite is the cute top and pants, because they’d look great to go dancing in.” Read on to see what Stennie thinks of the outfits.
 Stennie’s verdict: COCKTAIL DRESS: “Wow! That’s a definite head-turner, and I love it because it shows off Mona’s whole physique. I’d be proud to have her on my arm wearing a dress like that. I wouldn’t have a problem if she wore it out with me. But, if she’s alone, I’d worry because I don’t think other people would be respecting her personality.” Rating: 9/10
Stennie’s verdict: SASSY SKIRT SUIT: “It’s very neat and presentable, and my mom would definitely approve. It’s a nice Valentine’s outfit, and I love the red. But the blouse doesn’t do much for her figure because it’s too baggy.” Rating 6/10
Stennie’s verdict: CASUAL CHIC: “It looks like she is going to work and is way too casual for a Valentine’s date. The bagginess of the top takes the sexy right out of it, and the pants are too business-casual.” Rating: 5/10
Christine Taylor, 37, a freelance photographer, lives with boyfriend James Kloiber, 30, an art director, on Manhattan’s upper East Side. They met online three years ago. Christine says: “I always tend to wear black, brown and gray because they’re versatile and don’t attract a lot of attention. Luckily, James takes an interest in what I wear and has a good sense of style. His favorite outfit will probably be the pink dress because he often wishes I would show off my figure more. I’d love it worn by someone else, but it’s too risque for my tastes. I prefer the pants and top because they’re comfortable and sexy.”
 James’ verdict: COCKTAIL DRESS: “It looks a little hoochie and doesn’t really flatter her curves, although it shows off Christine’s tattoos very nicely. I like it, but she could definitely use a bra.” Rating: 7/10
James’ verdict: SASSY SKIRT SUIT: “It makes her look a lot older than she is and like a politician’s wife. The skirt’s a great shape and fit, but the jacket is boxy. I don’t like the print blouse with the red color, as it looks dated.” Rating: 7/10.
James’ verdict: CASUAL CHIC: “I like the drape over the shoulders and the way the top comes together at the waist. The pants are flattering and look modern. This is the best out of the three because it’s a lot classier.” Rating: 9/10.
Shayna Stoyko, 34, a copy editor from Brooklyn Heights, has been dating TV producer Howard Sebold (above), 44, from Park Slope, Brooklyn, since last April after meeting him on Match.com. Shayna says: “I am used to dressing to look cute rather than overtly sexy because I’m more of an observer than a “look at me” kind of person. Howard doesn’t pay huge attention to my sense of style but compliments me a lot, which is great. He’ll like the pants and top because, like me, he’ll think they’re jazzy, funky and fabulous.”
 Howard’s verdict: COCKTAIL DRESS: “She would never wear something that low-cut, but it’d be great if she did! It shows off her figure beautifully, although coral isn’t my favorite color, and I’d prefer it in blue from the same palette. It’s very sexy and my jaw would hit the floor if she showed up like this.” Rating: 8/10
Howard’s verdict: SASSY SKIRT SUIT: “This has an office vibe and, despite the funky jacket, is not very sexy. The animal-print blouse reminds me of Bon Jovi and the ’80s-style pussy bow is a no-no for me. It looks like she came straight to the date from work.” Rating: 7/10
Howard’s verdict: CASUAL CHIC: “Shayna looks great in terms of urban sophistication. It’s very sophisticated and nothing like I’ve seen her wear before. The top is flattering but reminds me a little of a Mexican poncho. It’s more suited for lunch than a nighttime date, but very cute.” Rating: 8/10
THE OUTFITS:
COCKTAIL DRESS: Herve Leger deep V bondage dress, $1,258. Sarah Perpich says: “I call this the sexy, magic bondage dress because it’s like scubawear that sucks in the butt, pushes up the boobs and looks great on practically everyone. Baby pink and lilac are very big this season.”
SASSY SKIRT SUIT: Diane von Furstenberg jacket, $425; Michael Kors leopard-print shirt, $698; Michael Kors pencil skirt, $498. Perpich says: “I love the cosmopolitan working-women’s look, and the pencil skirt is as huge for spring as it was for fall. The chiffon blouse with tie gives a feminine, frilly feel and the red jacket adds sophistication, especially for Valentine’s.”
CASUAL CHIC: Missoni batwing top, $838; Diane von Furstenberg Gilligan pants, $275 Perpich says: “Wide-leg high-rise pants continue to be big, and navy is always big for spring. I loved to play with the volume around the shoulder area of the Missoni top because it’s very fancy and flirty.”
CREDITS Outfits available at Henri Bendel, 712 Fifth Ave., at 56th St., (212) 247-1100. Styling by Sarah Perpich, makeup by Mally Beauty at Henri Bendel. Hair by Hana, Giovanni and Gwen at Frederic Fekkai on the fourth floor of the Henri Bendel store, (212) 753-9500.
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Enjoy pretty, shining lip with this sweet, natural gloss.
Materials:
6 teaspoons jojoba oil
1 teaspoon aloe vera oil
3 teaspoons beeswax
5 drops tangarine flavor oil
5 drops of vanilla essential oil
3 drops orange food coloring
Preparation:
Melt the oils and beeswax in a double boiler on low heat until the wax is melted. Remove from the heat and, while the mix is still hot, add remaining ingredients. Stir well.
Pour hot mixture into small containers that have been sterilized. Allow balm to set before use. Makes 3-4 small pots of balm. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
This easy mask promotes clear, radiant skin and helps to prevent blemishes.
Materials:
1/2 cucumber, peeled
1 tablespoon instant nonfat dry milk
1 tablespoon lemon juice
1 teaspoon plain yogurt
splash of rosewater
Preparation:
Place the ingredients into a blender and blend until smooth. Apply to face and leave on for 20 minutes, then rinse thoroughly. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
This exfoliation removes dead skin cells, gently firms, and leaves your skin smooth and silky.
 Materials:
1 lb glycerin soap base
2 tablespoons finely ground almonds
1 teaspoon sweet almond oil
loofah sponge
Preparation:
Melt glycerin soap base on medium heat. Once it is simmering remove from heat and let it cool. Add remaining ingredients and stir until blended. Dip the loofah into your almond mixture. Using circular movements rub over the skin. Give extra attention to rough areas. Continue to do this until your body is covered. Rinse off in a cool shower and pat dry. Follow up with a soothing moisturizer. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
Pineapple helps to remove dead skin cells as well as acting as an anti-inflammatory to soothe irritated skin.
 Materials:
1/2 can pineapple chunks (drained)
4 tablespoons olive oil
Preparation:
Using a blender, blend olive oil and pineapple into a fine pulp. Apply to the face and leave it on for 25 minutes. Rinse well with cool water. Dr. Yakini is a clinical psychologist and freelance lifestyle writer living in Brooklyn, NY. She owns and edits Girly Home Webzine®, the online magazine for ladies living siddity in the city. Dr. Yakini can be reached at girlyhomewebzine@gmail.com.
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